Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. The fear can totally destroy someone over something that they read as if its fact. My DEJA in home 6 in opposition to your NESUS in my house 12 to 10 degrees from my ascendant. I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. I would need to see more, Jenn! Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. . My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? Those interpretations CAN happen, but they are not destined to. If you do this, Astrology will serve its purpose, which is to warn and alert people to possible problems and even dangers. But, I will take sides with Sydney on this issue. Good afternoon, thank you for this article I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. You can have Mars/Pluto with a fling and not feel a thing in your emotions.We have the same kind of weighting with the conjunction, trine, opposition and square as we did above. Eros: Synastry Aspects . his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. What is your opinion on I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. If you see Moon oppose or square Pluto, dont play with the person. At the end of the day, that is all this god and goddess really ask for.". His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. Also, how does moon conjunct pluto in synastry differ to moon conjunct pluto in composite. It would simply be different. Why dont you put up your chart in my Forum and ask your question again. Also, our vertexes are separated only by 7 degrees. Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. Is there a positive aspect to this connection? I feel like it helps me. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. That never ceases to amaze me, either! Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. That is why I dont mince words. I haven't been able to find much discussion about this connection and I'm really interested in hearing stories from other people who've experienced it. Oops, sorry Amiann. I am sorry. Many people say they have overcome things but I watch their actions and see they are lying. Things to look for in synastry: Here we focus on indications of sexual attraction using Astrology as our tool. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. . -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). His ascendant is at 24 Virgo and has 0 Virgo in his 12th house. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. Moon conjunct Lilith EXACT Moon conjunct Destinn EXACT Venus square Mars EXACT Thank you for your words. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. We are mesmerized, enchanted, and even obsessed with this person. In the conjunction, the planets are next to each other( or on top of each other in the exact conjunction). I cant really relate to Nessus at all, though I sometimes think I can feel BML itching under my skin. Also, there is no abuse either way. Lets see. Thank you again. Moon/Pluto does not have to be dark sexual but if any planetary aspect would be, it would be this. I would say that this relationship would be INTENSE but in a beautiful way.Please, tell me about it! Dejanira is the victim asteroid. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. A Lilith conjunct Mars synastry creates an intense hot affair that can lead to abuse of power and hostility, and this couple must learn to take care of each other before passion consumes their lives. You are very welcome, my Friend. He was considered irresistible. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. I am curious about the dejanira/nessus aspects. lol. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. The chart is complex and one has to look at the entire chart to draw very global conclusions. They have a very imaginative sex life. The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. Wow. my mars is there too though, trining his Scorpio pluto 0.25 we have physical heat but plenty of fighting. I am not asking you to do mine either. In my studies and usage of them, they play out to be the abuser and the victim. I sense Saggi. I do find it funny that I have Dejenira in 5 deg Sag, since most of my arch enemies were Sags. I'm so cappy Knowflake . This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. So the theory doesnt check out. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. All this is square my Moon. I know how important moon moon aspects are to you, Venus pluto aspects How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. What does that mean? Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Same natal chart of a man who is 41-42 years old. Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. Ceres person appreciates this, as they typically focus more on caregiving than on their own inner desires. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. (Conjunction, Opposition, Trine, Sextile, Square! . What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. Ive never seen the Descendant explained so clearly or succinctly before. That would be my guess. We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. Free Horoscopes charts, calculations Birth Natal Chart Online Calculator Ascendant, Rising Sign Calculator Astro Portrait: Sun, Moon, ASC Personal Daily Horoscope Transit Chart Calculator Secondary Progressions Solar Arc, Solar Return, Prognoses Synastry, Composite, Davison Chart Traditional Astrology Calculator Sidereal Astrology Calculator Draconic Astrology Calculator Various astrology . When the son grows up, he will likely be the abuser,too. Thank You so much for this info. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? Squares and oppositions between Saturn and Juno can speak to a difficult relationship in the past, and theres some potential for this difficulty to be repeated unless both people are committed to working through their issues and working on the relationship. That is most certainly not the truth. As far as the form of abuse, one must look at the sign and the quadriplicity( cardinal, fixed or mutable) One must look at the chart to see how the abuse will play out but I think that abuse will occur in your situation with Nessus conjunct Dejanira. Will be keeping my wits about me. Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling. Ami, hello. Please, keep me posted though but, yes, please, be careful, Love! Thanks for your posts Ami. I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. A later relationship was abusive (a psychopath) His Nessus square my Sun Hello, what a great article, thank you. It makes me feel very crazy. We do not have enough information on every aspect, and never will because again, no interpretation is set in stone to be able to tell someone that something is most certainly going to happen. Knowing more. Hi! on Dejanira and Nessus. Lilith and Ceres conjunct in the synastry chart Your rebellious free spirit and nurturing sides are enmeshed. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? He may abuse her and it would be seen publicly. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. I wonder if that would mean that he IS an abuser but couldnt abuse me ?? Most karmic astrology synastry reports dont take Chiron into account nearly enough. You can gather the tone of the marriage based on the planets involved and the sign that theyre in. You can say you did it and you can help the next person who comes along. You don't need to BELIEVE in Jesus to come here and/or to contact me. In this case Nessuus is retro in conjunction with the North node. Hi Amiann Eros is also prominent in their synastry. (double-whammy..) Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. It may be the abuse takes place in the home or within the family. They have lots of soulmate connections in the charts and both make really strong NN conjunctions and squares in synastry. There are millions of possible outcomes, and none should be claimed as the truth. His Dejanira is in 25 Scorpio, conjunct my Part of Fortune in 27 Scorpio, opposite my Moon in 29 Taurus and Mars and Jupiter, in 0 Gemini. The Lilith conjunct Mars synastry aspect means that this relationship is made up of two fighters. Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. The relationship seems to end in a certain way, too. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? I seem to be one of the rare people doing it lol. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. It is typical cat and mouse game with taboo twists. Why dont you come and put the chart up on my Forum? His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. We have moons in conjunction in gemini; His venus and mars are in conjunction with my venus in Aquarius. thank you again for being so welcoming, Thank you so much, Sovietlana! It was a relationship based on dates and romance instead of the realities of life. Moon conjunct pluto Im composite and moon in 12th house composite (our feelings were a secret for a long time as we didnt know how we felt and were not able to be together for a long time). What about this aspects? I dont even have tattoos or my ears pierced. If your Dejanira conjuncts his ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. I was wondering.. Are Sun/Mars (double whammy) and Venus/Mars (double whammy) dark aspects in synastry? That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. That`s very interesting information. I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? If one person's Sun is conjunct Saturn and the other persons Eros is opposite Pluto, the contact will be quite different than if the Sun was conjunct Jupiter and Eros opposite Venus. Thank you, What do you think? I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. My jupiter conjunct his sun and venus. I know this is not my website, so I cannot change how you write and it is not my business to dictate how you write. My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. As long as we kept connecting the way we had been sexually, I was willing to "fight" for what I thought we had and felt I could withstand anything. My Pluto opposite his Moon. Im not saying it is impossible for the aspects to play put for people, because a lot of times, you do see it come into play, but really only when ones own natal supports that factor with aspects between actual planets. What would that mean? This was likely a more romantic or sexual relationship instead of something that sustained itself day to day. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. This is not to say it would be better or even easier. Thank you for this information! Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. What about my nessus conjunct his descendant? 5. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. Am I right? Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. How does that play out? The chart shows the TRUTH. In some past life, at some point, weve been married to almost everyone weve dated or had some type of relationship with. Next: Synastry Books Compared . Welcome, Britt. Priapus is likewise called a "minor rustic God" or even "an oversexed gardening God." Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. To gather more about the flavor of the relationship, look to the actual aspect (is it favorable or difficult?) 1) What would it mean when my nessus conjuncts his nessus? DO they have Moon trine Moon or Moon conjunct Moon. what would the double wammy of sun and pluto look like? Hats off to your courage. That is what I was saying. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. Im curious about that conjunction to my crushs NN, though..do you really think it could mean something? Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. Your passions are overwhelming, spontaneous, and you develop your attractions without even thinking about it. Well, maybe, but dont most abusers have a history of childhood abuse themselves? First of all Lilith is for . Hi I use the term female, but it would be the same for either sex. orb). YES, your Deja conj his NN will make you his victim, to put it really directly. It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! Is there anything I can do to help her? This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. There are some other great planet aspects but I am very curious about the ones I listed. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! It makes my day , What conjuncts the DSC, we disown and find in the partner. Opposition AC / Moon and trigone mars and saturne. I would put Moon/Pluto first in terms of super connection and passion and Venus/Pluto second. It is really rocking my world right now <3. We all have Liliths plutonic quality in us, the unconscious energy that brings up harsh boundaries between life and death, ecstasy and suffering, passion and revulsion, enslavement and freedom. She has never treated me as less than, and she is extremely giving. Which probably held it together for SO long. Yes, astrology charts do show the truth of ones life, but the issue is that YOUR opinions do not equate the truth. I have my nessus conjunct with my true node. The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. Playing with someones emotions when these aspects are involved could lead to bad things such as violence. In mythology, Eros was the god of sexual love and desire. What conjuncts your Aura? I really have not looked at these aspects in signs, though. Does nessus still be working as a tendency to abuse? OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. Thats not the truth. This really highlights this magnetic quality to this conjunction and creates a situation where each individual holds the . ami, what would nessus trine dejanira in synastry indicate. I think you will have the urge to abuse. Thats your opinion. I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus. What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. Youll always want to look at the chart as a whole, read everything as a metaphors, and use your intuition. The nessus and deja conjunction is in Cancer. Always leaving them in a fog of confusion, along with lies, victim playing and guilt trips. For that reason, I am not for everyone and know this but I seem to be appreciated by people who think like I do. Considering the sexual aspect of it all, though, I'm betting the pay off was satisfying at least, haha. In our synastry chart we have moon trine pluto and mars square pluto. That is why I, affectionately, call them too hot not to cool down. There are certain aspects I see in these dark,nuclear passion relationships. Obviously the hard ones, like by a square or an opposition, adding to the (possibly) destructive passion! If one does not see any abuse when this happens, my opinion would be that they dont know the person enough lol. 4. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? It is sad! Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. This aspect can bring intense emotions, profound personal growth, and the potential for both positive and negative experiences. You both feel admiration for each other. These are too many questions for text. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. In this video we will discuss the aspects between #Sun and #Eros in a synastry chart in Mix - Eros and Sun in Synastry! You never want to leave your beloveds side until they put you in the grave. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. It is not pretty at all. Dejanira trines my Ascendant. Pick your top two questions and I will try to help, my Friend! To me, it always is. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people. Your analysis is lovely. People tell me the same thing they tell me with Nessus. His Nessus makes no major aspect to my planets, except a 3 orb trine to my Mercury and North Node, and Vertex..could this mean well step on each others toes when it comes to reaching our goals? Do these asteroids have to be conjunct planets or square each other to be dangerous? I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. Come and post the charts. Sorry if this came off mean, I just dont want people to get scared over having one aspect when astrological interpretations are not set in stone. You are so welcome, Britt and thanks so much for telling me that you like it. I would say that there must be wonderful soul connections that keep down the abuse that would come up without these. I should have replied to the previous post, as it was a continuation of the conversation we had started. If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. "I want to welcome you to my website. xx. I didn't eroticize his everyday actions. What does that mean? His 8th house Nessus is conjunct my 7th house Dejanira (2s), opposite my moon (-1s) and square my mercury (2a). Venus mars aspects Things were so passionate that we were bankrupting ourselves on planet tickets, so after a whirlwind 4 month courtship I quit my job and moved in with him- on the other side of the country. Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. ? I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. If you want to ask me a simpler question, I am game! There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. Venus conj Chirondoes love seem to bring pain? Do you see what I mean. Finding Jesus is all that really matters in life. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. If you want to ask about 2 aspects, I will try to answer but an answer on the whole relationship needs an entire chart reading.
